Pass It On
At this time of year, we are usually very busy doing many different things. It is also usually around this time of year that most people are reflecting on memories from long ago, or from the year that is currently wrapping up. As we wrap up this year and head in to 2025, we start to look ahead and plan for what might coming in the year ahead.
I was recently struck by a picture and a quote that I saw. It was a picture of a man and his son. The man was leaning down to help his son fix his shirt. The son was looking back at his father smiling. The quote at the bottom of the picture said; ‘What you teach your children will be passed on to their children.’ As I thought about the picture and quote, it reminded me of the importance of time, and the powerful impact that one can have on someone else.
Let’s hit the pause button for a second. Perhaps this is the perfect time to reflect on your life, the past year, or to think about the year ahead. What is it that you want to pass on or leave behind for others? What things need to change?
Perhaps you grew up in a family that had some negative patterns or tendencies. Perhaps you have the opportunity to be the one to bring change and break those tendencies and patterns. It may not be easy, but it would be worth it. One of the greatest things that you can do and pass on is a fresh start and a new direction for the future. If you recognize harmful and toxic behaviors and patterns in your family, breaking the cycle can be incredibly powerful and reinvigorating! The potential impact you can have on others and your family is incredible.
What will you choose to pass on? Believe me, you will pass on something. But, what you pass on is up to you. Will you pass on the same old things that have been passed on for generations? Or are you going to be the one who changes course and makes an impact that will last for generations to come.
Maybe you have the opportunity to give your children the kind of future that you never had. Make the most of it. Point them in the right direction, and help them to grow in ways that you never could.
If you could take a few minutes and think about the message that you want your children or those you care about to know, what would it be? As 2024 winds down, ask yourself what do you really want to pass on?